Friendships day

I suddenly looked at my wrist and noticed that I don’t have a single band of friendship this year and infact this is the truth which is following year after year..

I went into the flashback of those days where this day was celebrated in much enthusiasm with bands, gifts , chocolates,and mots important is leaving your ink stains on your friend palm,wrist and that memories written on white shirts.

Oh those days!!! Today when I look at the present with the watsap messages its way opposite.

This days internet has made us disableed so much that we don’t even bother to call a friend on his or her birthday but just leave a message , leave about wishing on this day.

Should I get inked or not??? #tattoosareforever

Hey folks ,

So today I thought to go for an interesting topic TATTOO!!!

At first if you want to go for a tattoo ask yourself why & what you need to ink as they say tattoos are forever and I am sure you do not want to regret!!!!

I have heard from many that tattoos are not for good people , bad people have those but is it literally the thing you want to portray of a tattooed person.You will surely change your perception after reading this article ,

Tattoo will change the way you look at yourself,

If this on your wish list , well you know the kick of ticking the items on it….

It will make you a more committed and reliable person ,

If you are daring to commit your self for lifelong mark on your body it’s shows your reliability by itself ….

It will bring the best of you to the world,

No matter how much low you are in your life , this mark will always keep you reminding on the pain you can go through to bring the best of your self….

It will be the one thing you will give to yourself and would take with you to eternal,

What else you take with yourself at the end , nothing practically!!!!!

It will personify your beauty,

You know how to prove people that beauty lies in the eyes of beholder as you are true to your own skin with sky touching confidence…

Lastly it will teach how to love yourself!!!!

Go get inked , go behind you dreams , Tick your bucket list

#happyreading #femotions

Isn’t that women’s needs to celebrated everyday???

Holla ladies ,

Today being the international women’s a day, wishing a happy women’s day from me to you all !!!!

But do you thinks it’s just about this day??? I believe that women should be celebrated each and every day , the respect , the love , the care , the bond , the equality , the empowerment , these are the words but the true emotions behind them should be felt by her everyday , should be given to her everyday!!!

Here I am hoping that she can travel and wander on streets day and night fearlessly without any harm, disrespect.

Here I am hoping that she can wear what she can without getting judged on the same.

Here I am hoping that she will be able to express herself without double thinking about the social stigma.

Here I am hoping that she would be able to handle her choices of career, education and family plannings by her own!!!

Cheers to all the women’s who have been strong and who are beyond the word EMPOWER!!!!!

The girl with a dream!!!!

Meet Nitisha bhosle , a 23 year old engineering student who lost her final year by not scoring 4 marks in m3 subject.

She was down and depressed , knowing how the gap will effect and how will the interviewer get impressed!!!

Generally the students during this time tend to clear the subjects and go for some extra certification courses, for her it was different , she not only chose to clear her subject and continue with her engineering post gap but also thought to live her dream for once and all!!

This purely shows that life is not stuck on anything and anywhere , you have to make a way out of every obstacle and convert the same in opportunity always.

She started her baking journey , she tried to explore the other side of her , she tried to pursue her hobby and here she is today an ultimate home baker , a free lancer going behind her dreams. She bakes various types of cakes with the modern elements in it.

Apart from baking the basics ,Her speciality is wine cakes , real flowers cakes, hidden elements cake and manny more.

You can visit her below listed social media profile , help her gain followers and Dm your orders !!!

More power to you girl!!!!!

#femotions

Share us the stories if you know any such inspirations!!!!!

The unsaid void!!!!!

The Emotional breakdown which i was constantly trying to forget and avoid was haunting me like a bad dream!!!

Yes all couple have arguments and go through ups and downs but is it always necessary for a third person specially his mother to intervene and try to sort out things ????

The 30 seconds argument which we had once after he was at home post discharge didn’t had much impact then the 4 days melodrama created by his mother thereafter , god sees it all , they had to return back to home ground soon after knowing about leave issues for my father in law!!!!

Yes they left but the things didn’t settle down.Today by gods grace even though we stood up to the biggest tsunami of our lives but this melodrama had bought a big change and impact on our lives…

Yes unknowingly , our bond has impacted a husband wife relation got impacted by his own mothers behavior. We don’t seem to gel the way we were , he has changed , no appreciation, no love,no belongingness, only left is the bond with a void!!!!!!!

Or may be sometimes you are just taken for granted!!!!!!!!

An emotional breakdown

During that phase of our life (Cerebral hamerage of my husband) , I got to know really where I stand!!!!!!

I have had major ups and downs on ( Just another day…..) , but I kept calm and stood strong with my husband , knowing that we are away from the country and family , I made sure that his family gets to know the reality in a much calmer way , thanks to my mother for handling things on the other side.

Soon as they landed I actually had a sigh of relief that yes my people are their with me now, but the things changed soon when I started to hear things like this -‘ you should have taken him to hospital a day before only ‘,’it would have been less severe if you would have taken him to hospital previous day’, ‘now make food in less salt, less spicy , less oily ‘,’ don’t eat breads’,’don’t eat chicken’,’ don’t eat fish ‘,’don’t eat much rice ,’ ‘don’t eat outside food ‘ and the list continues to the point where I started feeling for myself that am I the cause for his this condition.

Did I do things wrongly , am I making him sick, sometimes people just get judged by the people who just want to judge you but when it is your own extended family , you really go through a EMOTIONAL BREAKDOWN!!!!!’

The angiography

The time was testing too , but the god and the good wishes started overpowering the MAJOR LIFE CRISIS!!

Today was finally the day when his angiography was scheduled after so much of delays.

This was the final from the slot and the most difficult one, they insert the thin wire under anesthesia from one of the body parts towards the cerebral veins to detect if any damage in veins, the procedure is similar to a mini surgery.

All our family members were tensed with the procedure and results. After 4 hours of pre and post procedure timings we finally got the sigh of relief when the results were concluded with hypertension and not more fatal with any malformation or abnormalities.

Thanks to our family and friends for the immense support and blessings during the testing times, but the story isn’t over yet , you know sometimes you are being judged without any reason and that’s what changed the overall game!!!!!

Major life crisis!!!

& so our test began for who we were when we were US!!!

Some things are destined to happen no matter what you have planned in life.

That weekend we planned to shop for our Georgia trip which was scheduled a following week but destiny planned the staycation differently….

You get to know who is yours and who is not in your those days of life, thanks to our friends who were and are our family , the extended family!!!

As we shifted to other hospital, we got to know that the cause of cerebral hemorrhage can be the undetected hyper tesion he was having or may be something else & so started various other tests and this time was nerves breaking.

Every other test became a night mare but some say have faith and bring all the positivity in you during this time so did I.

At the same time my family at home their in India was trying hard to get the VISA done for them to fly here. Time was slow things were unfolding gradually with tensions at both side of the grass.

No the grass was not greener on any side.

This was my side of view , I even cannot think what he was going on , what thoughts he was holding , what he went through and how disturbing it would have been to him.

MAJOR LIFE CRISIS!!! We Felt it all in one day!!!!

& then the test began!!!!!

Just another day , became a nightmare which I continuously asked my self ‘is this really happening to me’???

As soon as i discovered it was a stroke , I was not able to , for a moment think and was Numb but was doing the things I was supposed to!!!!!

By the god grace, first we bought our closest friend with us to the hospital , he soon felt like a brother from another mother to me and second foremost important thing was my husband was conscious and clinically stable!!!!

That moment for me was to be quick , calm , and to be decisive on all the actions I needed to take. At first we were told that he needs to be shifted to other speciality hospital!!!

Few things I took care in that moment:

• staying normal in front of him and not letting him know the criticality so that he won’t panic
• Calling the family and informing the same with the very calm voice so that they will be strong enough to absorb the things
• Very important thing is getting assurance on the insurance coverage and policy( thanks to our friends here who took it to communicate and help us get in touch with the HRs)
• Being alert and actionable on his status every time I was around him

Thus their was a time to begin a journey to the hospital shifting where the diagnosis and treatment will be done and so began the test of our lives!!!!!!

Just another day…..

Staying away from family in a different country is all about mixed emotions , and the test Begins when you are married and your partner goes to home country visit and you don’t because both of yours leave scheduled don’t match!!!!!

Yes , thats my story , my husband went on an annual leave for a week probably after a year of working around the clock!!!!

Days were long and I was longing to meet him, he arrived and was a bit tired probably due to hectic holiday schedule.

We started our regular weekday, as they say ‘back to the bay‘!!!!

Sunday morning he went to work with a mild headache but a good amount of neck sprain and when I was back from Office I saw him already at home , and not well!!

That night passed , thinking that he has a normal neck sprain and would be okay by the morning!!!

It was just another day, We woke up on Monday morning , both of our subconscious minds said to go to the doctor and we went with the complaint of neck sprain!!!!

The world became upside down , when things unfolded with his blood pressure levels 230/110 , and a conclusion of cerebral hamerage !!!