I am deeply saddened to here the stories of some girls specially those whose parents cannot afford their marriages and still they don’t have that feeling of responsibility…
Actually its not that whether your parents are financially stable or not stable, it’s about how you help them to finance your own marriage.
Parents right from your birth put their whole and soul in bringing you up and giving you the best from their abilities. Don’t you think so you should atleast bother to help them save some and spend from your pocket for you own wedding!!!
I firmly believe in this. Being educated and self dependant,if you cannot afford this definately you are not worth it.
So girls think for them ,you would have a second family soon but it’s not the end to your first family and towards their responsibility!
If you ask me you should not only help in with this but always make sure that you always pay them back by financially supporting them even after your marriage. It’s not always the responsibility of a man ,be a women to be a son of your Mom dad!!!
Luckily i am in this century where Female Education rate is progressing day by day.
But still i believe their is the other side wherein educating a girl is merely having any IMPORTANCE.
Why still people have this thinking that ‘Shaadi k baad ladki ko sirf ghar sambhalana hota hai’???
I see many educated boys around me saying ‘meri biwi shaadi k baad job chod degi, kya karna hai usko job ka ?? main hoon na??? ‘
Living in 21st century and having people around with such thoughts make me go numb….
Its high time for people to understand the importance of a girl being educated!!!
By Educating her not only would give her opportunities to excel in her professional lives but she can also help you personally, professionally,financially, emotionally in your good and god forbid if anything happens , she would stand with you and your family and for herself in tough times too!!!
Educate Girl Child, She is not always meant to be in kitchen!!!!