We were living out of country for work and as he decided to switch his job, their came a day when he had to exit for new visa processing.
At first I felt that it’s time enjoy the me time, suddenly the daily routines were on pause mode. I used to cook only one time shortcut cooking is what I say. Had manny rice variations in that week. Use to wake up late and had that cheese toast and cheese paratha for whole week. I really had nothing to do after Office and mainly our house was as neat as it was in morning for the rest of the week.
But I realized , this leisure time was no longer a point of happiness for me. That routine of waking up and making lunch for us,his presence , that little mess of ours in our house , that daily chores , that boredom of chores during weekend I soon felt wanting all those.i felt half hearted , I felt something was missing in me and thus I understood my life is around my husband and so is his.
We are like Tom n jerry , we love to hate each other but that is what always keeps our bond the strongest.
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I was once wondering how would it make a difference in him before and after marriage. Would a wedlock means that his love will fade and so would our relationships essence???
Today when i am finally a ‘MRS’ to him my all unasked questions are answered…..
I saw a big difference in him and his behavior which does not mean in a negative way, infact the difference is in the bond which he has with me. His nature,his support, care and belongingness has just grown immensely powerful.
The way he calls me Wife, Bayko and all those words meaning MRS and the way he shouts out this to the world make me feel much more secured and loved which is just beyond comparison.
He has grown in his own way to be more matured and responsible person , responsible toward me!!!
Rest all is the same , our madness, our love for each other, our compatibility.
This is about my story after marriage… Whats yours??
I believe that the love,affection and bond beholds in each others heart and is not bound to change before or after for any couples.
From the age when you become aware of Arrange marriage and Love marriage concepts.
You always wonder which one you would fall for???
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So their are both pros and Cons in both of them in their own ways.
Arrange Marriage is wherein it is your parents who decide the soulmate of your life ,Love marriage gives you a chance to make your own choice.
Arrange marriage lets you explore your better half and go through the adrenaline’s of those initial period of togetherness after your marriage , You witness these time before you wedding in love marriage.
You may or may not know each other very well before your marriage in arranged one but you are tip to toe aware of him/her in love locks.
No one ever can win a discussion on which one is better and so yes i would still go on with this fact of life that MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN!!!
but Choosing your partner wise or agreeing your parents decision is ultimately your stand , make it wise and worthy!!!!
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